Prime time television?

Categories: Life

Remember when prime time television meant it was the prime time to gather the family around and spend the evening together? I remember watching the Cosby Show or the Disney Sunday movie with my family. Now it is more often than not prime time to sell sleaze and filth to make the most sponsorship money. Sure you can vote with the remote and simply turn it off. But how do the sponsors know you aren’t seeing their ads at that time if you see them during other shows and still support their businesses? If you aren’t a Nielsen family, will anyone know if you turn it off? You’ll know of course, but how loud is your voice if it never extends beyond your walls? How bad does a show have to be before you turn it off? Or do we let them slowly desensitize us so we don’t realize how bad it’s gotten? If it’s “Great… Except for That One Part” is that good enough?

Last fall one of the stations wanted to run a show that made me ill inside just at the idea of it. And I decided I would speak with more than my remote. I signed petitions. I emailed the local and national stations. And the emails I got back were telling. The emails told me that it was a tasteful show. That it was a representation of things that had happened, implying that made it okay. There have been a lot of things in history that have happened and are definitely not okay. None of the people who emailed me would admit that they’d let their families watch it, that it was a prime show to gather their children around and watch with them. I tried to find the sponsors for the show so I could let them know that their advertising dollars at that time slot would be wasted. And I was one voice. But my voice combined with several other people who spoke up was heard. And the show only ran three episodes before it was pulled.

One isn’t that many. But when you get a lot of ones together, you can make a difference.

Ah. That felt good.

Categories: Exercise, Happy Things

Due to various circumstances I haven’t done any running for the last six months. Two weeks ago I figured I should probably get some running in while I could because I won’t be able to again soon. And I went for three miles. And it felt so very good. :run:

Turns out there was a 5K today sponsored by the Tucson chapter of the BYU Alumni Association. I graduated ten years ago this weekend. It’s probably about time I started doing some alumni events.

I decided since I really don’t have a running base I’d walk if I needed to. Brett came for moral support, cheer leading, and photo taking. I commented at the beginning that normally when you see that many strollers at a race there are three to four times the number of runners in the race. Seemed like at least a third of the people had a stroller. The race started late and with an opening prayer. I wasn’t surprised by either.

The race was an out-and-back on a bike trail. The winner passed me 11 minutes in just as I was getting to the 2K mark. I passed the stroller pack on my way back about the 20 minute mark. I ended up running every step, and I even ran negative splits.

  1. 6:20.44
  2. 6:16.50
  3. 6:23.08
  4. 6:07.61
  5. 5:56.33

My total time was 31:03.96, pretty much a ten minute mile, about what I was expecting.

I felt like me. I needed that this morning.

Survey says…

Categories: Questions

We’re going to the dentist this afternoon. I’ve been to the dentist more times in the last three years (three times) than I went in the ten years before that.

So here’s a short survey with very important questions about life:

  • Do you floss before or after you brush?
  • When doing dishes do you put the silverware business side up or down in the dishwasher/dish drier?
  • Toilet paper over or under the roll?
  • Formal bookmark or random piece of whatever you find lying around at the time?

Gardens and weeds, babies and trees

Categories: Food, Happy Things

This is our third summer married and I’ve noticed something strange. This is the first time I have ever pulled dandelions. Where did they come from? I started thinking about it and the weeds I pulled last year weren’t the same as the year before either. I’m wondering how big the cycle is. How many years will we have different weeds before the cycle repeats itself? And why is there a cycle in the first place?

My weed pulling philosophy is that as long as our yard looks better than the neighbor’s we’re doing alright. The neighbors to the west of us cleared their yard last week. So I need to go pull some more (the neighbor’s to their west have a small forest growing). I’ve also noticed that the areas where I physically pulled the weeds out are clearer than the areas we just sprayed. Yes it’s only April, yes I’ve been pulling weeds since the end of January.

We watched “Wall-E” over the weekend. Brett wants me to plant pizza plants. I told him other than the fact that you don’t plant chickens, I could plant the rest (as long as we go veggie style on the pizza). Although now that I think about it, we don’t use eggs in our pizza dough. But you don’t plant yeast or cows, so there’s still that problem. We definitely need cheese on our pizzas. We’ve got tomatoes. I’d plant some wheat. He said if I plant wheat though that he’ll go out in the middle of the night and sow tares. So we probably won’t be planting pizza any time soon.

We’re still eating lettuce from our garden! I love it. The temperature is creeping up though. So I’m excited every week that it keeps growing. Next year I’m planting it even earlier than the first of February. I’m still trying to get my head used to the growing season here.

Our tomato bush is getting real big and has lots of little green tomatoes on it. But as of yet none of them have gotten ripe so we still don’t know if they taste like candy. I need to get another tomato cage when we do tomatoes again. I apparently got rid of my cages when I moved to Arizona and forgot till it was basically too late. I’m keeping our tomato upright this year with some plant stakes and pantyhose. Not the best situation but it’s working.

(our garden on February 4th, March 25th, April 6th – notice the difference in the cilantro from March to April)

Whenever I need cilantro I always buy a bunch from the grocery store even though the recipe I’m making only needs half a bunch. (Cilantro comes in standard size bunches.) And then the other half always goes to waste before I need to use it again. So I bought a cilantro plant and figured then I’d have it when I needed it. The little cilantro plant got huge and we weren’t using it fast enough.

Then I saw on the internet that you can freeze fresh herbs. So I made a bunch of cilantro-sicles. Since when I use cilantro I grind it up in the blender anyway I put the cilantro and enough water to help it move around (so not a lot) in the blender and then poured the mixture into an ice cube tray. I made sure to label the bag because I probably shouldn’t mix-up the cilantro with any other herb-sicles I make. I have some leftover parsley I bought for our Easter lamb I should freeze.

And since cutting off the bulk of the cilantro plant it’s really come back strong. I’ll probably make some more cilantro-sicles soon. Next year I probably won’t need to plant cilantro. Is cilantro an annual or a perennial?

The baby hummingbirds hatched Easter weekend. They’re already big enough that we can see the heads poking out of the nest and not just the beaks. As soon as they fledge, probably another two weeks, we’re calling an arborist to straighten out what turns out to be a Chinese elm in our front yard (we learned that when we called for an estimate). We’ve tried cabling the tree on our own to get it back vertical with no success. It probably needs a proper pruning too. Then when the hummingbird comes back next year the tree should be steadier.

It is easy when you are not alone

Categories: Gospel, Happy Things

Friday morning I woke up with this saying running through my head:

I never said it would be easy, I only said it would be worth it.

I must admit that I’ve never liked that saying for the main reason that it is not scriptural. In fact, Jesus actually said it would, or more importantly, could be, easy. Because right after that thought hit my head the scripture that says it is easy immediately followed it:

28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Matthew 11:28-30

The scriptures actually say it can be easy. Christ’s yoke is easy.

What makes it easy though? Because everyone has trials. Everyone has difficulties. Can anyone say that their life has been a cake walk?

As a mortal example, because I am yoked with my husband, there are trials I have now that are easier for me to get through because he is by my side, he backs me up, he props me up. The yoke of our marriage makes trials that might have broken me if I were alone bearable. There are things I’m dealing with right now that I would not want to attempt if I were alone.

Being yoked with Christ provides me with the support and sustaining strength of the Son of God. While the trials of life are not a cake walk, I cannot imagine how much harder they would be if I did not have that support in my life. In comparison to living my life without Christ, my life with Him is easy. It is only in Christ that my soul finds rest, giving me strength to get back up and try again.

He said it could be easy.

In and on my head

Categories: Quilting/Sewing, Random

Random thoughts pass through my head some times. Here’s a sampling:

  • I’d rather have fleas than lice. Fleas just eat you. Lice lives on you. I’ve had fleas. I’ve never had lice. I’d rather not.
  • Isn’t this false advertising on my box of Raisin Bran? Raisin Bran has dark raisins. Can you get dark raisins from light green grapes? I thought dark raisins came from purple grapes not green grapes.
  • Why do people read comic strips they don’t like? I’ve always loved reading the comics. It’s an essential part of my morning. I even have whole stacks of them that I cut out of the paper and saved because I liked them. Since finding comics on the internet I now have files of electronic clippings. But I really don’t understand people who feel the need to read comics online that they apparently don’t like because they keep leaving angry comments on the strips. If you don’t like it, why are you reading it?
  • It’s not that I forget how to make small talk, I just never learned – xkcd: Small Talk. Brett’s real good to put up with my version of small talk. Like this post. Small talk with the small random thoughts that pass through my head. Imagine if we said all of them out loud.

And I made a hat to put on my head. And I’m very proud of it. It took about an hour and a half from the time I decided I wanted a hat for me to cut the pattern, cut the fabric, and sew it all together. All from a pattern, fabric, and interfacing I already had. I stuff it in my bag and wear it around campus to keep the sun off my nose and ears. I’m super stylish.

Third grade dissertations

Categories: Education, Learn Something

Put this in the “light bulb” category. :lightbulb:

Two years ago I took a class that was probably the best one I’ve taken as far as finishing school goes. During the course of the class we repeatedly presented our research ideas to the class and refined them. We had to write a “five paragraph dissertation” during the class. The basic dissertation is five chapters long (with room for modification depending on what you need). So we wrote a paragraph for each chapter with the main points of that chapter.

The basic chapters are

  1. Introduction
  2. Literature review
  3. Methods
  4. Data
  5. Conclusion and discussion.

Last week it dawned on me that this is not a new format. And then it seemed kind of obvious. I’ve been taught how to write a dissertation since elementary school.

After you learn how to write sentences you start putting them in paragraphs. The four sentence paragraph. The first sentence is your topic sentence and then you have three supporting sentences after it. That’s a good paragraph.

Once you have the basic paragraph down you learn how to write a, wait for it, five paragraph paper. In the first paragraph you introduce the idea, you tell people what you are going to tell them. Then you have three supporting paragraphs, such as background information and new information on the topic. And in the final paragraph you tell people what you told them, you summarize what it all means.

I’ve been writing five paragraph dissertations since elementary school! At this point each “paragraph” is multiple pages long, but it’s still the exact same format.

Suddenly it doesn’t seem like such a hard thing really to write a dissertation. I can do this thing! :woot: