I remember moving to New Mexico just before my ninth birthday. Until we found a house we lived in an apartment that made me wary of apartments for years. I remember my mom did a lot to make sure that birthday was a special one though.
I memorized all three verses of “I am a Child of God” while waiting for the bus the month of school we lived in that apartment before moving into our house. The school I went to for that month was a closed school and I was used to open schools. It felt very confined. My teacher that month was Mr. Near (or was it Far?). After we bought our house (where I got my own room and we had orange shag carpet in part of the house, green shag in another part, and carpet in the kitchen), I went to Chaparral Elementary and my teacher was Mrs. Stupin. A student was assigned to help show me around but she didn’t do a very good job. A kid named Michael Rains in my class did a better job and he and I became good friends all through elementary school.
The school gave me some tests and started pulling me out for Enrichment during the week. The Enrichment teacher was weird. She had us put on a production of “Midsummer’s Night Dream” and I don’t like that play to this day. They also started sending me to Mrs. Armendariz’ classroom in the for math.
I started playing the flute that year. I played through my sophomore year of high school. I still have the sign my parents made to wish me luck the night of our first concert.

I remember playing Oregon Trail on the green screened Apple IIe in our classroom. When I taught school it was really fun for me to watch my students play the latest version of it. The same things in the game were still fun for the next generation.

I remember Trapper Keepers in 3rd grade and how cool they were. I really wanted one. Fortunately I was a very messy student and my mom came to school with me one morning so she could help me clean my desk (I kept losing assignments) and got me a Trapper Keeper so I could stay organized. I didn’t think mom coming was that cool at the time.
I remember going to Yellowstone National Park for a family reunion. We stayed in some of the cabins and were playing baseball in the parking lot till a buffalo decided to walk through our game and we all hid behind the cars.
I remember driving to Wyoming to visit Grandpa Giles.
He had huge lilac bushes in the back yard and a big garden, grape vines, and a clothes line I’m envious of now because of how big it was. There was even a ringer washer in the basement. And a huge braided rug on the floor down there.
I remember it was about the time I started kindergarten that I finally stopped sucking my thumb.
I remember picking out a stuffed dog for my sister when she was born and a doll for me. The dog smelled like baby powder. That was at Lionel Playworld, the best store ever for a kid that age. I remember her crib (or maybe it was the changing table) being at the foot of our bunk beds until we moved to the new house. I had the top bunk so I’d sit up there and watch my mom take care of her.
I remember we lived in a yellow house with pansies and a sand box and snowball bushes along the back wall and the train would go behind our house. Dad would put snowball flowers in my hair for church. When we moved shortly after I turned four I remember two ladies who came to look at the house talking about getting rid of the sandbox. I didn’t want them to have our house. We had pansies and snowballs at our wedding because of my memory of that house.
I am an educator and PhD. I quilt, belly dance, run, read, and try to grow things. I am a Mormon. I am infertile. I am a daughter, sister, aunt, grand-daughter, friend, wife, and mom.










