Category Archives: Infertility

How to Make a Baby

Categories: Family, Health, Infertility

Our original plan was to welcome our first child shortly after our first anniversary, when I was done with my coursework for my degree. But as the saying goes, man makes plans and God laughs. Our plans for when and how to have children were not God’s plans for us. Keep reading

Not giving up on our dreams

Categories: Family, Infertility

We’ve had many dreams over the last three years waiting for this little girl. And while they have been modified many times, the important thing was we did not give up on them, even when the skies got rough. Keep reading

Just don’t. It’s awkward.

Categories: Family, Infertility

Asking about a couple’s sex life is always awkward, even if you ask indirectly. Unless you are privy to the details of a couple’s reproductive plans, pretty much any comment related to reproduction is going to be inappropriate, and make the situation awkward. Keep reading

Join the Movement: Speak the Silence

Categories: Health, Infertility

I did not want to be told to just relax, to just adopt, to just try this other treatment, to feel lucky I didn’t have kids, to only talk about infertility. Say you don’t know what to say but you are praying. Keep reading

Holding on together

Categories: Family, Infertility, Relationships

We walked and talked, moving forward, together. … The stress of infertility has definitely weighed heavy on our shoulders, but we’ve hefted the yoke together. Keep reading

When your soul is in my soul’s stead

Categories: Infertility

In the last two years two more shows I watch have brought issues of infertility into the mix. This time my soul was there in the dark and cloudy day. … Any child that comes into our family will be because of a lot of deliberate planning. Keep reading

My normal is different

Categories: Health, Infertility

[The pain] was just normal for me. I didn’t realize it might not be normal for everyone. I wasn’t aware of what endometriosis was, or that I had it. Keep reading